Listen. Do not interrupt.

Scripture:  James 1:19-20

19My dear brothers, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, 20for man’s anger does not bring about the righteous life that God desires.

Observation: Listen, really listen, to what others say. Then digest it. And then respond.

Application: I must stop interrupting!

I must stop thinking about my response when others are talking. I must really listen, ponder what has been said and THEN respond.

Prayer: Dear Lord, please guide me in my communication with others and with you. We both know I interrupt way too much (and isn’t just once too much, anyhow?). I often let my emotion and frustration take over. Remind me of your word, your perfect instruction: be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry. Keep me from interrupting others and instead really listen. How much I am missing when I interrupt! And how much I am missing when I try to guide my conversations with you, too. Remind me to listen more than speak… to REALLY listen. Thank you, Lord.


Comments

3 responses to “Listen. Do not interrupt.”

  1. screamofcontinuousness Avatar
    screamofcontinuousness

    God.

  2. Somebody's Mimi Avatar
    Somebody’s Mimi

    EVERYONE loves a person that listens!! But if we all are good listeners who does the talking???

  3. screamofcontinuousness Avatar
    screamofcontinuousness

    I have a really hard time with this one too. So many times conversation becomes a competition of ideas. Whoever can get their idea across the fastest and the loudest “wins”

    And i fall for it just as hard as anybody. I have to write on my heart ” the first shall be last and the last shall be first” I’ve written it there many times, but my ego keep erasing it.

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